Tempest of emotions

It feels like my humanity is disintegrating
till there is nothing left
And when that happens I will laugh
Because the world had won
but I’m about to have my all round victory
So yes,I’ll love to be broken more
So my darkness will shine with the light
And I’ll be better than I’ve ever been
Thanks to the unrestrictions of the disassociation that was forced upon me

Understanding the concept of abundance

Those of us who are familiar with the law of attraction and other positive manifestation methods will have heared the word “abundance” so many times.Many would have pondered on the meaning of abundance.From the many descriptions,abundance will mean having an endless supply of resources for all of human kind.Right?

It may begin to seem confusing sometimes when you think of those who are poor and suffering even though we have such  wonderful “abundance”.Looking around your room and home,you may have problems not being sceptical as you search for any positive indications of abundance.It is hard to get past the lack you feel and clearly see.You have made a mistake because it is not possible to see the infinite with the physical eyes in a doubtful humanly state.

It is very hard to see the infinite.You can’t just see it with a finite mind.This is a mistake many motivational speakers make or maybe they deliberately withdraw this information so as to make people more eager to grab a copy of their book for them to have more sales quickly.It makes you wonder how people are poor and suffering all over the world when we have all this wonderful “abundance”.

Our abundance is love.We have an endless supply to give to produce the results we need.Love is the root of all good things.If everyone was loving in this world,no one will even have to suffer.But we all know this is not how things are.We have so much love to give and to receive,only if we let ourselves.We deserve all the love we can get and the world around us deserves it as well.The fruit of abundance is love.We must see abundance from a place of love,because when we do this we see what could not be seen before.Our inner eye is openned and we stop giving ourselves and those around us pain.Then we are finally free to see the infinite all around us.

Time in action

There is an awakening energy in all of us that we must grab,to get into the next level of enlightenment.It is subtle and only attainable by those who approach it with dedication.Were cannot hope to go further without transcending some banalities of the physical life.The mind-body connection is stronger than we perceive.We alter either,whether for positive or negative depending on the actions we choose to do through time.

The impact of utilizing this connection will be to an ultimate level.We must have in mind the mental clarity of the image of actualized goals and visions.Trying to chase the fulfilment of the irrational or what could have been is a dead end path.Somethings have to go,somehow, if you want a change to occur in your life path.There need to be a disconnection towards negative action triggers

Nothing miraculous would happen without a changed step.No matter how small,the process must begin and repeat consistently.The path to greatness lies in the ability to be able to do and redo positive things.It is the constant effort of turning the wheel one step further that makes you go at a full momentum.It is the steady transformation we can get through time put in action.

Tragedy,a rite of passage

Bad things have happened,bad things will happen and bad things will happen continuously,because bad things have always happened since the dawn of time.This is a fact you should accept.It may seem like a curse,but it’s not.The reality of life just embodies this.Such are how things are,when you look at it especially from unawoken layman’s perspective.

It seems like suffering because you have choosen to see it as so.The question now is,why?Why-has always been the question of the century for many things.Most times no answers are figured out to explain the intensity of life’s truths.Sometimes the easiest explaination are the right answers we have been looking for all along.

  • Pain prepares you for pleasure:Life is a cycle,just like the wheel of fortune card in tarot.Everything has stages and luck is left to the wheel.There us a need to understand what sorrow means for you to be able to fully understand what joy feels like.If you pass through though times now,know there are enjoyable times as deep as the tragedy you felt coming.
  • The universe has a lesson:A message might be directly to you,a point the universe wants to pass across.What lesson must you learn?what should you be doing during that situation?Is you part to enlightenment that way?

  • A story is being crafted:Life is a vivid story,slowly building up to a climax,steadily coming to a close.You tragedy and painful experiences might be a story that must ne told,a reference for someone else to grow.It may be the needed motivation that only you can impact in people’s life because of the uniqueness of the story.What you do with the tragedy and painful is left to you.Just know you have a choice-to turn it to a story of hope or languish in anguish.

Those who choose the first option come out stronger,better,happy and fulfilled.The answer is love.

Keeping up with the tides of the universe

Keeping up with the tides of the universe
The flow of the atmosphere
The rhythm of the earth
Asteroids clash and combust on the milky way
The splash of fire like the death of a rebirth

Whispers of the voices of nature
Soothing the relief of ever fresh wounds
Giving birth to new ideas which were raised from those which died
Burning brightly,Phoenix like

The waves have a way
Softening the rough edges and getting the frail sides stronger
Building it all solid
the law of polarity
The same perspective presented in multiple ways

Layers of love flowers
waiting to be claimed and embraced
Fluttering ever so incospiciously
The enigma of life,it ever flows
beauty of the universe

For you

For you my love I sing this song

Though you may not know

It’s me who has always cherished you

Through storm and rain

I have always sung your praise

Your name was like honey on my lips

You are most precious,my sweet

Delicate like a flower

Strong as the firm ground

Fine as silk

Yet roughed like the edges of cotton

You are everything which exists!

Aftermath of situations that seem like failure

What happens after an “had i know”moment?You will feel the pain and sadness.Tightening of the chest and the feelings of worthlessness.But you must not let it control you.Equip yourself with the right tools for survival.

  • You are are stronger than you think:If you think that failure will destroy,you’ve underestimated yourself.You have also doubted the power of the humans psyche.We humans are very strong,and I’m not talking about physically.I mean that our fighting power is very high.We are not easily broken and when we are,we can always remold our selves again.The feat of human achievements by people like you and me,who have gone through failure but yet persisted is amazing.
  • People are not judging you as harshly as you think and even if they are,those ones don’t matter:The illusion that is life and society formed by our minds controls us in more ways than we think.Most of our fears have been instilled on us by judgement.The people we fear judgement from are not perfect themselves,we should always remember this.Majority are too busy with their lives anyways to even care.Resting your happiness on how you are perceived or how less your failures are seen in the public eye is the key to failure.
  • You are stronger than they think:The perception of how you are viewed by people is not the real you.It is just a shadow,a glimmer of the reflective surface which is humanity-a mirror;showing the self and all the biases.Only you can know your true potential.And only you as well can decide.There is no guru that can tell you your true potential,or determine if all will be well for you.All that is lies in you and your power to be strong when you need to.
  • Should panic set in,relax your mind and unburden your soul to remain calm:Really,it’s not that hard as we make it.This thing called life.But if you make it feel hard,it will only get harder.The more you get used to ignoring the threat of panic and choosing peace,the better it will become.Remain calm as a choice no matter how you think it would be,it gets easier as you constantly let it be part of you.

Everything good will cogsme!

Get your idea to spread!

It’s easy to conceive an idea but the most important thing is making your idea known.The creation process is incomplete if you have no idea who your audience are.Without spreading your idea,it will die off without reaching its potentials.Ideas are like pollen seeds,they must be spread for it to grow.If they do not spread,then they die off,like they never existed.

Target the right audience,not throwing it to the masses who are focused on other things or just don’t care.Find your niche audience and make them hear.Put the words in the right mouths,broadcast it to all ears.Let your content stand out uniquely.Let it be something novel
that will catch the attention of the right minds and ears.It can be brilliantly eccentric but never dull and regular.

This is one success tip that is easily ignored.Many think that by just having a solid concept or creation they can achieve success.Such is a mistake that many make,wrecking havoc on their optimism and self esteem when it all comes to nought.You can build an establishment with the size of a sky scraper and no one might no anything about it.People might not even venture to find out.Why?Because you did not get your idea to spread.At the end of the day,such grand dreams will be wasted without any one knowing.

By any means,use sources that can benefit you in spreading your idea.Media outlets are the most effective options.This includes social media,television,forums on websites,etc.Try to find your tribe (those interested in what you are doing) and people who really need your services.This will also make your idea spread by word of mouth,as information are shared to friends and family.Most importantly,make your idea unique and not in the range of the mundane

It’s easy to conceive an idea but the most important thing is making your idea known.The creation process is incomplete if you have no idea who your audience are.Without spreading your idea,it will die off without reaching its potentials.Ideas are like pollen seeds,they must be spread for it to grow.Target the right audience,not throwing it to the masses who are focused on other things or just don’t care.Find your niche audience and make them hear.Put the words in the right mouths,broadcast it to all ears.Let your content stand out uniquely.Let it be something novel 
that will catch the attention of the right minds and ears.

By any means,use sources that can benefit you in spreading your idea.Media outlets are the most effective options.This includes social media,television,forums on websites,etc.Try to find your tribe (those interested in what you are doing) and people who really need your services.This will also make your idea spread by word of mouth,as information are shared to friends and family.Most importantly,make your idea unique and not in the range of the mundane.

Top five ways you can defeat fear

  1. Stop overthinking:Overthinking magnifies your fears.If you have thought about doing something,then go for it without dwelling too much in thought.Not only will over thinking stop you from actualizing your goals,it feeds the fear.It also keeps people who engage in this from being in an active state of doing.
  2. Do those things that normally frighten you:There are two methods to this:A deep-yourself-into-it’s method and a slow and steady approach.Both of them work,you just have to find out which would suit you more.If you fear talking to strangers,do that.Either you suddenly put in effort to talk to strangers per day,or you slowly try and initiate and keep conversations with strangers.
  3. Do not listen to the inner voices:It‘s easy to fall a prey to the deception of our minds.When this happens we call it self sabotage.It is the pattern of badly wanting something but yet the inability of taking known positive steps to fulfilment of those goals.Everyone has those “doubters”(as I would like to call those voices)always criticizing us and demoralizing us.The goal is neither to argue or fight with this voices.The goal is to not respond and let them naturally become mute.Be calm.Equanimity is the key word when dealing with them.
  4. Avoid rationalizing:Ignore the feeling of having to defend your fear.Fear should not be explained as it is irrational and emotional.It is a defense mechanism to what you feel you can’t control.Rationalizing strengthens the fear as you justify it and gives it a reason for existence.
  5. Take a step:Practice makes perfect is not a cliche.The more you do something,the better you become.The same goes the other way around,hide from something-the worse you become.Open yourself to possibilities(no matter how cliche that sounds as well).It might not exactly be as perfect as you had imagined but it is still a step.All growth means progress.Make sure you advance daily.

      Don’t apologize for what you can’t control

      I once saw this quote:”You are not everyone’s cup of tea”.This is very much true.One life lesson everyone will have to learn is that people’s opinions of you are subjective and therefore,not important.If you ever want to be live happily,this is a fact you must accept.Because if we do not come to terms with this,we will be our own biggest problem.
      We as humans have learnt to place to much value on how other people see us,even strangers who do not really know anything about us.

      We try to please everyone,when we don’t know this salient lesson we are meant to learn.
      This brings hurt,shame and guilt to us.We begin to question the way we are when it does not fit with other people’s ideals.We start feeling sorry for being ourselves and begin to internally apologize for not being another person’s version if “good enough”.You should not care of people’s thoughts on you as long as you do not engage in evil.Living a free life requires you to be independent of being curiosity of thought process of others about you.

      When thinking of myself,I begin to see that I had apologized enough for being an introvert.It dawned on me that I have nothing to be sorry for,that people’s perspective of me will always come from their biases.Sometimes I have let people’s subjective opinions on me come in the way of my own happiness.And you know what,at the end of the day,the opinions i choose to dwell on gave me nothing of additional or positive value but took away much positivity from me.It breeds negativity.It’s like constantly fighting a war in your head,which you know that you can’t win.

      There’s nothing shameful in being your own version of perfect.Never be ashamed of your uniqueness!