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How to make the most out of your life

Are you feeling down on life, confused or unable to find the right track to go with? Well, a lot of people feel this way. “How do i make the most out of my life?” is one of the most asked questions to life coaches, astrologers, friends and family, etc. It also a start of a good sign when this question is asked, because it means that you care somewhat about your existence. Below are highly effective ways to enhance your life if followed diligently.

Ways to make the most out of your life

  • Create a theme for your life: It is quite easy to get lost in the turbulence of life if you are unaware of the things that your life stands for. What are you all about, or what do you want to be all about. What goals do you care about accomplishing, how do you picture yourself in the highest state of achievement? Answering these questions can help you find a theme for your life. This will make you know what you should aspire to be in your daily activities. Your theme for life could be: “Successful and happy”, “divinely guided being of abundance”, “Energetic and creative living”, etc. Mine is simply “Abundant success and fullness of life”
  • Know your worth: A lot of people in this journey of life forget their worth along the way due to some tumbling and bashing. They forget that life’s tough times do not define anyone. To make the most of your life, you have to recognize your divinity and realize that you are worth any good thing that can happen.
  • Look for the right things: Seek out the right things that will be beneficial to your life. Stop chasing vain pursuits. Some people actively seek things that hurt them or bring down their sense of self worth. Do not be this way. Treat yourself like a soul mate you are madly in love with. You would only want them to do constructive and beneficial things.
  • Be greatful: As cliche as this sounds, gratitude has tremendous effect on the life of a person. Many times a lot of people are stuck on “the wheel of complain”, that they forget they actually have things to be greatful for. Even if you lament poverty, have you stopped to thank God for your talents , fullness of life or… your lack of having cancer? Even if you have cancer, have you stopped to be thankful for the caring friends and family you have. Also, you have eyes to read this, or ears to be read this to. I have learnt along my way in life, that there is always something to be thankful for. And when you are thankful, miracles happen and good things come.

Radical action is the main step to success

 Ever wondered what held you back from the completion of your desired goals and achieving success? Here is your answer. 

You failed to take decisive and radival action to propel you forward. It is not enough to just feel tired of lack of growth in your life, there must be willingness to try new methods and things. But many are not willing to leave their old ways of doing things behind. Their thought process stop them from thinking outside the box.

Getting out of poverty, lack of resources, idleness, slothfulness, or any traits you have been used too for far too long that is not bringing positives in your life requires radical action. Want wealth? Are you ready to take various action you are not used to taking? To step into abundance there is a need to diversify. Diversify your thoughts, actions, places you go, people you meet and relate to, etc.

 In doing this will you find the information you may be looking for. Are you willing to talk to that rich dude who visits your local cafe and summon courage to talk to him? Or are you willing to ask the right questions to make you your best version. Asking the right questions brings the right result. So why do you stop yourself from taking action?
If success in anything you imagine for yourself is your goal, then a radical step must begin it all. This is the main first step. While reading success stories of great people, you may notice that many had to go the extra mile than the general populace in their thoughts, actions, interpersonal relationships and movements. They did not do what was expected by anyone other than themselves. Also, the renowned people you see today had dreams that a “normal” person did not even comprehend to be dreamt. 

If you refuse to break your routine or typical life cycle then success is not coming. Your days should not remain as it has been from two years ago, from work to restaurant to friends house to your house. Funny enough, many people’s life had remained as it were 10 years ago, some even for longer. And for the general unsuspecting populace there is comfort in this abnormality. This is why if you plan to be successful, you can not look at the general population for inspiration. 

You must choose those who are not living the rat race, the ones who have transcended the matrix as your inspiration. Are you ready to take radical action. To write those first pages to begin that novel you’ve dreamt in your head, quit that boring unproductive job, buy that plane ticket, dial that number, ask that question, create something?! If you are, then success is on the way.

Care about more success tips, follow my blog and take note of my coming posts.Lets go on this journey together!

Message to the followers of my blog and visitors

 I am very greatful for the growth of my blog and the increase. When I first started, the numbers of followers I have now was just a dream. It seemed so far away. But now, it is a reality. And it has just begun. I will really love for all of us to go on the journey together.

Having shared my gratitude, I want to use this moment to implore my followers. PLEASE COMMENT ON MY POSTS. I want to hear your opinion and receive your feedback. A writer craves for response in order to feel like he/she has an audience. This also goes for the visitors as well. For the visitors who like my content, please follow, like and share your view through comments.

Thanks, peace and God bless you

Heal your self and spirit with these words

The Ho’oponopono practice of forgiveness and reconciliation has been know as a sure way to heal the self and also act as a law of attraction tool.It is a simple process of acceptance and letting go.The act let’s one forgive themselves and therefore transform negative energy into positive.

The Ho’oponopono practice consists of simple words that bear powerful effects when said. With the repetition of these words,things fall into balance.The words are:

I am sorry

Please forgive me

Thank you

I love you

 It is as simple as that.The healing powers of these words when said with emotion are tremendous.


Adaptation is our answer

Adaptation:

The ability to develop certain features to withstand different environments and conditions.Every living creature adapts.This is a skill all humans possess.In animals and plant life,the features are more physiological,while in people they are of a psychological/behavioral kind.

I have found out the answer I was searching for.What makes particular people in humanity trive and survive?Like most great answers,it is very simple.Adaptation.This is what influences growth.It makes a millionaire rich and it has the same driving force that enables the same millionaire to have no problem being one,even when all wealth is taken away.

When there are hardships learn how to adapt to it.When you are struggling with lack of money,adapt and grow.When money comes,get used to the flow and spend accordingly.Adaptation is an important life force.We are starting to forget this power we have inside of us due to recent occurrences.A constant rememberance is necessary to use our inbuilt magic worker.

Black

Black as coffee

Black as night

Brilliant like an ever star studded sky

It contains all the colours

Mysterious and elegant

The shine of nature

Pigment of the soil

Backbone of our blood

Unique like mother nature

Pure and unblemished

The earth’s glow

Unmutated,strong and bold

The universe is black

The milky way is black

The soul is black

A cure for loneliness

As the world advances,people increasingly fall into a pit of loneliness.Human contact has washed away to meaningless interactions.The social media world has inspired people to present a fake version of themselves. Loneliness happens when the true self has been ignored or hidden in the shadows for too long.The people pleasing masks worn creates a vacuum in our souls that longs to be filled.

The cure for loneliness is ourselves.It begins within.In order to be free from it,learning to love our real selves is necessary.Not the one forcefully presented on Instagram,or the fake one that we show family and friends.It is the hidden self which was long avoided.Being comfortable and at ease with ourselves is the cure for loneliness.Our fears and love which makes us real must be acknowledged in order to be free.It is a journey of self finding.

Meditation,soul searching and spiritual awakening is needed.We must ask-what makes us us?For ourselves we must see the composition of which our souls are formed.If we can be at peace with our real selves,we will not be lonely.We will be filled with light and love.Those that are truly meant for us will remain attracted to that light.

Happiness would become a familiar concept when you know yourself.

It’s not about willpower!

Willpower had become a cliche word for in which so many self help people proclaimed to be an ultimate problem solver.Its only recently that studies on willpower show how limited it is.The effectual reliance on the short supply of this proclaimed wonder tool has no basis in actual keeping up with a positive habit.

It turns out that by rewiring the pattern of your brain,the need to use willpower frequently is not neccesary.The constant loop mode the brain is always in to repeat pattern and habits is our enemy,especially when it comes to creating change.If only we learn how to break the pattern and stop the habit when we notice the loop in action.

So no,it’s not about willpower when you want to change your habits,action,thought processes and your mind.It’s about doing something sporadically,out of the blue even as when your mind tells you to follow the old ways you are used to.When you begin to do this,it becomes more easier to try new stuff.Willpower becomes less needed to go through the day.

Be spontaneous!

Do everything with a touch of class

Being a class act is universally admired.The worst people in history had gotten off easy and were even praised because they committed their deeds with class.From Cleopatra,Thomas Jefferson to Marie Antoinette and Winston Churchill,many people recorded in history for their power(even though bad deeds were done),a great attitude of class was presented.

Almost any fault,sin or crime is considered more leniently if there is a touch of class involved

Frank Agbendle

How to be classy

 Do not appear over passionate/emotional about something, at least on the surface.Keep your perceived emotions calm and cool.Always believe what you present,be confident about your prowess.Even if you are serving cow shit (excuse the language),be brave and confident and do not doubt your worth.This makes it worth more as the illusion is potrayed.Confidence is classy.

Acting classy is seductive and enticing.Flying into a rage or expressing dramatic emotions/overreaction is an instant turn off.The more you appear with class the more respect you will receive.Think about the impression you want to give out before you take a step.Select the right audience that is worth your value.

Class gives you charisma just as it increases your perceived value.Make sure that you do everything with a touch of class involved.A well meaning action executed without intelligence and dignity results into a shameful result,while a bad intention executed with class and charisma appears dignified.

 Let class be your maxim

When I was blind

I miss when i was blind

The time everything just slided by

could not notice the pain and suffering 

Moments of shame

Occurring all around me

I was just happy,lost in my own world

Of cake and fantasy

Back then everything was ok

Even the subtle jabs of insult

Then it was all good 

There was no need for fear

Because I could not see

The monstrosity before me

Glaring me in the eye