4 words you should never use

According to the laws of attraction and the well known power of the tongue, we now know that our words mold our life. Whatever we say manifests itself in someway or another. Knowing this, it is best that we choose our words right in order to live a right life.

These words should be removed from your vocabulary today:

  1. Can’t: This word signifies disbelief and lack of fate. When you say that you can’t do something, it is an agreement of failure. Doing something which you have not done before might be hard, that does not make it impossible. Saying that you can’t will most likely make things more difficult for you. Instead of using this word use the word “can. Embrace the possibilities of existence.
  2. Not : It is a known fact that the brain doesn’t recognize ‘not’. In fact, it doesn’t take note of a negated word. If you say, “I will not get sick”, your brain is interpreting it as “I will get sick”. This being the case, you have to use positive statements to describe yourself. For example “I will stay healthy” is a better option.
  3. Wish: Except when you are writing a poem, you should not be wishing about anything. Wish is a word of nonchalant powerlessness. This word distracts from action. It is admitting to not having power over your life and not wanting to do anything about it. Wishing puts you in the state of lack and you are left in a fantasy hope. Instead the word “will” can be used. ‘I will get that house’ not ‘ ‘I wish I could get that house’
  4. Need: This word creates situations of material poverty and intellectual poverty. To need means not having. To declare that one need something means one believes in scarcity of that thing. This negates the law that everything in this world is more than enough to go round. Therefore this keeps people from getting what they should have. The word “have” should be used.


Most eccentric zodiac sign, Aquarius or pisces?

These two zodiac signs have shared similarities and are still so different at the same time. It’s like comparing apples to pears. Aquarius can be described as a stereotypical mad scientist, member of extremist group or legendary rebel like Zoro. Pisces is the daydreaming, poem-writing, head in the cloud-having bong smoker. You can see, the extremes of these two signs are well, extreme. So the battle no one knew existed comes into the light, which sign takes the title of most eccentric. I use this word as a polite expression of the world ‘crazy’.

First off the definition of what is eccentric vs normal has to be defined. But if I’m correct, society has not been able to adequately label that. Because of this, we can only go by the self made descriptions in our head. If a daydreaming bizzare adult child is eccentric to you, then that takes the win. But if it’s a rebel without a cause, unemotional bandit that pricks you as society unapproved then that’s your most crazy. If I had to go by my standards, I will say Pisces have an interesting mind that may not be appreciated by all. Aquarius on the other hand pride themselves with having their own conclusions on things, not trying to conform to what they don’t believe in- yet still wanting to socially fit in. Aquarius’ crazies increase with the amount of non mainstream knowledge they consume while Pisces’ is by how many more ridiculous scenarios they make in their head.

Pisces is more warm, Aquarius is more cold ( you can thank Saturn for that). Pisces will shock you with their blatant weirdness, Aquarius will stun you with their constant blatant weirdness. In my opinion Pisces acts more crazy maybe sometimes for the fun of it, while Aquarius’ crazy is unknown to even them which makes it even more bizzare. I’m sure to them they must be thinking what they’re doing doesn’t appear as strange as others perceive it. They should learn more from Pisces, being eccentric and proud is good for their soul.

Both will freak you out though, but they are both nice to chill with.

Budget Christmas items for your family

Christmas is on its way and many of us are anticipating the holidays. But not only are we thinking about the celebrations, but the gifts we are to give and receive. The issue of gift items bothers many of us because we have a lot of people to give with a limited budget allowance. If you fall into this category, wipe off your sweat, because I have got it all figured out for you.

Do you want to surprise a special one with a useful electronic gadget? Do you have a gamer dude (or gal) that you want to make happy this holidays? Are you worried that it will be too expensive to afford on your Christmas budget? Then you can try:

Budget laptops: Laptops don’t have to be expensive to have a good experience with. Check out these awesome laptops with great gaming experience for budget price. I’m sure your friend or family member will be exceedingly greatful to you.

You want to give out a gift that is not techy or electrical. Then you can try out clothing.

Cheaper clothing items with good quality exist and they make great gift items. Some clothing pieces online are budget items to surprise your loved ones with.

Beanie: Beanies are cute, useful and sweet. They can be given to both sexes as they come in various shapes, styles and textures. You can get these for your younger ones, spouse and even the Gramps.

Bow tie: A bow tie is also a cheap and useful budget gift item for your male loved ones (and female ones who are into that fashion style). It does not look tacky as a gift and it will be well appreciated.

Cap: A cool looking face cap makes a great idea for a budget gift item. You can find many nice caps below 10 dollars online.

Belt: A nice gift item for any decent man.

Sunglasses: You can find stylish yet cheap sunglasses online below 10 dollars.

Mug: A mug is an always appreciated gift. I mean who does not need an extra drinking apparatus. There are thousands of cool cheap mugs online. If you feel like, print something cheerful on it after you have bought it.

Funny gifts: Getting your loved ones an item that will tickle their funny bone will make the holidays more cheerful. A book with a funny title about a random thing is a good choice and there are many budget options for this one.

Scarf: A scarf is always a classy option. It is never too cheap nor too expensive, as its function of fashion and to warm the necks of people never gets old. You can show your family and friends that you think warmly of them (pun intended) by getting them a cozy scarf.

Clutch: Which lady does not want a nice looking clutch. A clutch is stylish, fashionable and it does not have to be at an hefty price to be beautiful.

Wallet: These are easy to find and come as cheap as possible. Let your loved ones have a new place to keep their money. There are a handful of design to suit even the most picky snob’s taste.

Note pad: Yep, you have no idea how many people are looking for things to write with. There are fancy note pads that come at any price. Especially if your loved one is the writing type, this budget item will be greatly appreciated.

If you don’t think that you can have inexpensive great items this Christmas, you’re mistaken. There are plenty of items that I can’t even begin to list that will give you a quality Christmas experience without the feeling of buyer’s remorse that comes after. Allow yourself to enjoy the holidays because I believe that you’re at ease now with all the budget items presented here. Happy holidays in advance!

The most intense moon signs of the zodiac

The moon sign in astrology rules our emotions and character during inter personal relationships. Our moon sign tells us more about the person we are because our emotions make a greater part of our personality. With this been understood, some zodiac signs are more intense than others when in the moon sign placement. These signs are:

Moon in Aries: Aries is a fire sign that is naturally volatile even when it appears as the sun sign or any other placement. Aries in the moon is intense and emotions spark off and fly. This placement does not think of the consequences of emotion before exploding. Some people with this placement are known to have moments of fits of rage, which after erupting lets go of the anger. A positive aspect is that someone with this placement will likely not hide their anger and let it simmer to unforgiveness or hatred (like moon in Scorpio and moon in Taurus).

Moon in Capricorn: Capricorn is natural a cold sign but the moon placement makes it even more chilly. When the moon is in logical, business minded Capricorn, most form of visible emotionalism is robbed. The person with this placement might appear ruthless and calculating. Sometimes there seem to be no warmth in them. Vengeance can be a deadly blow upon their enemies, they wont care because the soft emotions are not there. Work is needed to show partner, family and friends that they care.

Moon in Scorpio: Scorpio is well know as a deep, mysterious sign that values revenge over forgiveness. The moon makes the emotions of the person more intensified as the water element of feeling things intensely is increased. Love and hurt is felt more intensely and so is the depth of obsession. This people are not to be betrayed because once you break their trust they will not trust you ever, but they can pretend that they have.

Moon in Gemini: A Gemini’s changeable nature accentuated by the moon’s energy makes it intense. This people are unpredictable, logical and somewhat detached. You can hardly fool or emotionally hurt this people because they are one step ahead, or just don’t care. This people can love you today and plan your murder tomorrow. Do not give them a reason to doubt you, unless you want to be shocked by their change.

Similarities between Sagittarius and Gemini (opposite signs in astrology)

While opposite signs appear vastly different, on close study the similarities between opposite signs in astrology are pronounced. Opposite signs are those signs that are at the polar opposite end of themselves. Gemini and Sagittarius are one of them. Gemini is an air sign, while Sagittarius is a fire sign. Both signs are known to quest for knowledge, though the means of acquisition is different.

Gemini would love gaining knowledge from the intellectual direction, this includes reading books, attending lectures and participating in casual debates. Sagittarius on the other hand would love gaining knowledge via exploration. This includes: Travelling, understanding culture by observation, interacting with gurus, thinking philosophically about that which is puzzling. But on closer inspection, you will see that both Sagittarius and Gemini can share their opposite traits though it might be expressed differently. Sagittarius may appear as a lover of debates and a book worm while the Gemini might like to understand by observation and exploration.

Sagittarius are known to have good traits of being an humorous life of the party. Bad traits of Sagittarius would be self righteousness, double talk, (A common Gemini trait as well), insensitive, a religious fanatic (this comes from obsession with their believes). Gemini are also known as the fun talkative one, or the quite cool one. The bad traits include being two faced, indecisive, unstable in thought, insensitive, etc.

Though they are opposite signs, they have similar traits expressed in different ways. A Gemini being an air sign will have more propensity to be a more indoors kind of person than fire sign Sagittarius (ofcourse this depends on a person’s overall birth chart).

Superficiality? Why do Christians dress so well to go to church?

Have you noticed this trend in churches? The pastor usually wears a suit and the congregation are well dressed. If you ask anyone of them, they will say that they just want to look their best in the house of the lord. But why must people look good to go to church? The church has become a social gathering for many, making a casual outfit almost look out of place. It’s like it’s sinful to dress down when you go to church.

I see people looking like they are going for a party when they go to church. Such superficiality blurs the reason for going to church in the first place. However, I am not in support of the extreme notion some dominations take that is the opposite of this. Dressing down, not wearing jewellery and appearing peasant- like because you are going to church is also superficial. 

It seems to me that the church is lost between two extremes. One group which considers the church as a social outing and the other who use to church to show how holier than thou they are.

Solution for the show offs :Smaller churches in which there is a smaller need to be extravagant
Solution for the holier than thous: Bigger churches in which they will feel the need to appear more presentable.

The balance is in the moderation

Finally ended the Tropical (Western) vs Sidereal (Vedic) astrology battle!

If you are an astrologer or a fan, you will know that there are two main astrology systems. And these two systems have 30° or so difference between the signs. This means you will most likely be one sun sign in tropical and another in sidereal. This also creates vastly different birth charts by the sign differences occurring in many planets.

So, you are waiting for me to tell you which is accurate? This is a theory.

Here’s it. Tropical astrology (western) birth charts are accurate personality data. These tells you your character, personality and aspirations very well. Sidereal (Vedic) astrology birth charts tell you predictions. These are mostly accurate prediction because they are based on the fixed stars. So tropical charts have a general understanding of your personality as a person, while the sidereal covers the predictive events. 

Another theory is: Tropical charts signify you, while sidereal signify the energy around your birth. So I can be a Capricorn sun born around a time of Sagittarius sun energy. I can also be (among the few that fall in the middle) a Capricorn sun born around a time of Capricorn energy. This can also bring up theories of differences within a zodiac sign. Because a Capricorn-sag energy person will behave differently from a Capricorn -cap person, right?

A person also once said, if you come from Eastern countries like India, then you can stick to sidereal(Vedic) astrology. Then if you are from a western country and other countries then you can go with Tropical(western) astrology. The theory was also about different time systems and all that. Can the same argument be said about Chinese astrology? But that seems like a vastly different system, though there are similarities.

Also, here is someone else’s theory about it. Though i am not in support of this.

What do you think?