Monthly Archives: November 2016

Love,what is?

What is love?Love is not what is portrayed in the media today.It indeed is not what many people think it is.Love is not a fallacious and capricious display of emotions.Love is deeper than the shallow interpretations.Love is patient and kind.Love does not judge or hate.Love-It is unconditionally there.Love is understanding.Love is caring without a cause,trusting without a doubt.There is no need  to be afraid of any conditions for love.

So what is love? You discover that yourself and come to a brilliant description of the language.But to me,Love is.

Love is patient and kind;love does not envy or boast;it is not arrogant or rude.It does not insist on its own way;it is not irritable or resentful;it does not rejoice at wrong doing,but rejoices with the truth.Love bears all things,believes all things,hopes all things,endures all things

1 Corinthians 13:4-7


Faith and courage

To have the manifestations of faith,one must be courageous.The mentality of courage must be involved to be able to do such a seeming unrealistic thing like having faith.On the physical plane and to the lack luster mindest,”faith” is equal to “fate”.This makes people succumb to the physical deception of lack of abundance.This is what faith reveals-constant abundance.Faith tells you that it is not your destiny to have a bad “fate”.Theres more to life than accepting life‘s control of you and your fate/destiny.

       You will have to be brave enough to see multiple ways the multiple perspectives to situations.In stale,cold,white flour ,you have to see a fresh,warm,brown bread.Open your mind to the possibility of impossibilities.Once you open that door,it all becomes easier and naturally done.You get used to that brand of optimism like a second skin.

Lack of courage leads to faith that cannot be realized.It would not be able to last without a trillion doubts killing it off.Doubts that crop up in the mind during “had i know” moments are due to no courage.If there was,there would be no need to fret/panic/regret,because faith and courage would show you the way.A door with many options.

Faith without works is dead

James 2:17

Awakening realizations 1

How do you know if you are an awoken soul?

When you wake up to a world that is not the brainwashed picture you are used to,which had been presented to you your whole life.That means you are awakened.This is both a pleasant gift and an unsavoury curse.It is because you see,recorgnise and feel what you do not always like.

The truth is obvious to you now and it cannot be re-covered.You have to dance to the music which brings the mix of all emotions.You are unable to communicate your magnificent views adequately to the unspoken ones.They may see you as too radical/confused or insane.

Because you are not “meant” to know something’s which you now know,you focus on things that are not “meant” to be focused on.Sometimes you feel the weight of the world on your soilders.You empatize indiscriminately.You feel that nobody really understands and kerp trying to carry on on your own.

  • You feel weak and strong alternatively
  • You look for guidance on your next steps
  • Burdens that were never yours becomes your concern 
  • You have a connection to the universe 
  • You are expectant on the next steps outcomes
  • You are enlightened beyond your expectation(when you actually look deep within).

Such is the life of someone awakened.I call it the awakening realizations.

Letting go-might just be your path to happiness

We hold unto things too much,sometimes to our own detriment.Happiness is not to be fought for.At least most of the time( find out below).Many times we do not realize this as we continue struggling.Happiness is wrongly attached to unimportant things.We feel that if we can get something or reach some height of fulfilment of some sort that we will be happy.At the end of the day we find out that after getting to that place, we are still unhappy.It is by our lack of understanding of what happiness means/is that we feel this way.This is not saying that ones shouldn’t have goals rather that happiness is not dependent on situation.

   You cannot force happiness or struggle for it.Letting go is a way of healing pains and soothing wounds.Things fall back into their right place when we don’t constantly try to wield things by our desires.The peace in having a free mind without judgements and attachments creates happiness.HAPPINESS RESULTS FROM NOT JUDGING YOURSELF.There is this live and let live mentality you would see in many happy people.The love comes naturally,it is not forced.Love should always come naturally.

    Sometimes we try too hard.We fight too hard.We hold on to our fears/aspirations/believes too strongly.We gasp too fast.And we let go way to slow.What do you know of happiness if you are bound by…whatever it is you are bound by.When you feel like(insert thing)makes/breaks you,you can’t be happy.We must let go of limitations to inner satisfaction.Happiness is falling in love with oneself unconditionally.Eventhough you do not sense a lot of love from other,you have to be your best fan.

I think and think and think, I‘ve thought myself out of happiness one million times, but never once into it.

Jonathan Safran Foer

To be so strong that nothing

can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity
to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel
that there is something in them
To look at the sunny side of everything
and make your optimism come true.

To think only the best, to work only for the best,
and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others
as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past
and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times
and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself
that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear,
and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world,
not in loud words but great deeds.
To live in faith that the whole world is on your side
so long as you are true to the best that is in you.

Christian D. Larson

 A few times,happiness is to be fought for.But these times are rare  which would be known when they arrive.These quotes below highlights on that.

Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it. You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.

Elizabeth Gilbert

Learn to value yourself, which means: fight for your happiness.-Ayn Rand

In conclusion,your happiness is in your hands.

Stop being lazy

Laziness ruins personal evolution.Laziness is not only a state of mind,it is also an act of doing.It is an action of not performing necessary actions.The key to stop laziness is to break the pattern of lazy habits.You have to push yourself in ways which you’ve ignored before to achieve your goals.Remember the sense of achievement you get towards completed tasks is vital for motivation.To become a better version of yourself,take note that there are others who are trying to become better everyday.Why don’t you make a choice to be better?

      Know that you are on your own in life.Meaning that you can’t blame your success or failure on anyone else.You are your master and acting like you are the coordinator of your life will stop laziness.Thinking like this would make discipline of yourself easier.Avoid procrastination at all cost,because one minute of it,leads to hours and hours of negligence.

  The fear of failure dominates laziness and procrastination.For creative ideas,many are afraid to come up with things because of fear.They are afraid of being judged by people.Some think:what if?What if people don’t like my idea?What if i fail?What if this is not good enough?This fear hinders people and cause laziness.This is also called learned helplessness.

  At the end of  the day this does nothing but continue the vicious cycle.Do not sleep all day and expect a miracle to give you success and prosperity.Time is valuable and this should be understood clearly in order to achieve any goal.Accept control over your life.The value of yourself lies in you.You are the only one that has your best interest at heart (or should have),everyone is busy thinking for themselves.So why shouldn’t you?

When everything seems to go wrong :keeping calm 2

 There are those days when life gives a full dose of unpleasantness.Those are the hard times that we must all go through.Painful as those moments may be,we should not let go of our reasoning.Remembering that nothing lasts forever (Yes,not even though times).There is always a way for us to survive.

  It feels suffocating during times like these.As nothing seems to go fine,one might feel as if cursed.Getting angry at oneself and others is what emotions do cause in such instances.Unpleasant situations bring out our worse emotions(Unless we have learnt how to curb them)However,a wise person would know to keep calm.Keeping calm is very vital.It is in fact a valuable asset in trying times.When you find it hard to breathe,remember you have a constant supply of oxygen and lungs that automatically do the job.Remember to BREATHE.Always keep calm.

    Keeping calm when you can do nothing about a situation is the way to go for better outcomes.Don’t make rash decisions,for you will regret them later on.Take your time to think while you remain calm.Answers will surely come even during situation that seem impossible to maneuver.If one lets the unpleasant emotions take over,it will make matters even worse than it is.Imagine a man with anger problems,finding out that his computers were stolen from his office.He might smash his tv and all his home decor in anger,ruining them.What good as this done him?Nothing,he has only made his life more difficult because he has added extra problems to his problem.This is what succumbing to negative emotions can cause.

    It is wise to keep calm,even in a disaster.This would give you a clear mind on wear to run.Keeping calm does not mean to act now nonchalant about the problem(That would be unseriousness).Concern should be shown in  a more mature state of mind,devoid of negative energy and emotions.So,when everything seems to go wrong,keep calm.