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Today’s great quote: Peace

Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace

Buddha


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The world is more than identity

 In this plane of existence we live in called earth, there are a lot of delusions. These delusions abide in our everyday life and the social construct is one of them. If you notice, there have been many of these illusionary trends. For example the world today is run by race and skin colour. There is a divide between those who are majorly rich and those who are majorly poorer based on pigment. Even among a race with more melanated people there is the seperation of colour by identity, the lighter spectrum the favoured. And this is just one of many identity associations.

 Another means of identity bestowed to divert from our inner selves is ethnic or country seperations. We see people differently based on associations of foreigness. This can be because of the primitive mindset of association with a group sharing some similarity with you. For example the tower of Babel story were God created several languages to separate people according to those who spoke words like them. This was to cause people from coming together to cause problems by building a tower to reach the sky. This affiliations are less needed since that era had long gone.

 Now, I’m not saying that there are no problems in the world as regards to identify and the need for some to identify as somethings to feel complete. For example, feminism is an identification. It is a label which supports defending the rights of women. This works for some to reconcile their reality with what they feel on the inside. They saying “I am a feminist” makes them feel good and tells some story of their value system. I support women being treated equally but I do not identify as a feminist. No, Why? Because it is unnecessary and has no validation to my being. If there was no word which meant “supporter of equal rights for women”, I will still be someone who supports the rights of  equality women. The lack of label does not change my inner world.

 It is a common thing now, I have noticed for people to fight for identity. Some of these comes from a place of recognising ones self while the others come from doing what everyone else does. Indeed there are some identities that are important to claim. Identifying as a wealthy person in spirit and material things recognizes our nobel nature and essense. Identifying as a child of the Creator is another one of those. 

But many external validating identities, some which are of group thinking, do not enrich our soul and essense. There are so many deep seas your soul should reach and that will take the rest of your life here on this plane to finish the exploration. Why waste your time claiming a bunch of identities, labels and association you do not even really understand? If your answer is “to fit in”, you already know your solution. Any identity that is truly important to you or real does not even need a title. 

Claim only your real identity, the one that your soul knows. Let your divinity shine through the illusions.

PS: Also do not take life too seriously, if you want to joke about with some of any identification relating to you, do so. Bit don’t let it define your being.

The principle of being a genius in your life’s journey

To me a genius is similar to a genie, they both make things happen. The notable difference between them is that one is fictional. It has been shown numerous times, that to perform in some feats considered brilliant requires actions that may be seen as less rational. In simpler words, many great people who had walked this earth were either a bit crazy or had a lot of faith in trying things out. You hardly notice the common link of having faith with being a genius, because the sheer brilliance of the aftermath results. 

But being a genius has as much as having faith with being associated with madness. Frankly, faith can be seen as insanity before an outcome occurs. When all physical proof or past knowledge shows no signs of something taking place, trying to defy all odds seems strange. The best things in this world, however had comes from genius thinking. The touch of madness or leap of faith is just any other name that it can be called.

Application of this principle in daily life

  • Have strong faith.
  • Think creatively, the more bizzare and curious the better.
  • Know that everyone has been blessed with the power to create.
  • Follow your intuition.
  • Employ the guidance of people wiser than you.
  • Figure out your talents and what you are naturally good at doing.
  • List the things you actually enjoy doing more than other activities.
  • Escape the confining box of pride but be confident in yourself as a person and divine being.
  • Be spontaneous.
  • Read up on anything you find interesting.
  • Find the adventure in life, surpass the mundane.
  • Be weird.
  • Seek progress and have a drive to improve yourself and the world.
  • Do not fall into bitterness no matter what.
  • Check your mind set from time to time and if it is in a negative state, quickly switch back to positive.
  • Be less influenced by the trends of the world.
  • Only follow the things you want to be informed about on social media, do not waste your time with following topics that only cause inner conflict in you.
  • Try to make the world a better place, but do not be frustrated if you can’t change the world.
  • Relax, somethings are just bigger than you.
  • Spread positivity and life into any project you touch, including people.
  • Be genuinely happy on the inside.

Now go be a genius

Scratches

I am sorry to tell you

that all your efforts has just been scratches on my defense

You have not even started reaching within my surface-yet

Like I have touched yours

It’s all just scratches dear

As you try to break down the fortress around my heart

But do you why it’s even there?

Because the world did not consider me important to reach for

Keep on scratching my dear

I am sure someday you will find a great shovel

To make your way through my guard

Then will I be forever glad

How to make the most out of your life

Are you feeling down on life, confused or unable to find the right track to go with? Well, a lot of people feel this way. “How do i make the most out of my life?” is one of the most asked questions to life coaches, astrologers, friends and family, etc. It also a start of a good sign when this question is asked, because it means that you care somewhat about your existence. Below are highly effective ways to enhance your life if followed diligently.

Ways to make the most out of your life

  • Create a theme for your life: It is quite easy to get lost in the turbulence of life if you are unaware of the things that your life stands for. What are you all about, or what do you want to be all about. What goals do you care about accomplishing, how do you picture yourself in the highest state of achievement? Answering these questions can help you find a theme for your life. This will make you know what you should aspire to be in your daily activities. Your theme for life could be: “Successful and happy”, “divinely guided being of abundance”, “Energetic and creative living”, etc. Mine is simply “Abundant success and fullness of life”
  • Know your worth: A lot of people in this journey of life forget their worth along the way due to some tumbling and bashing. They forget that life’s tough times do not define anyone. To make the most of your life, you have to recognize your divinity and realize that you are worth any good thing that can happen.
  • Look for the right things: Seek out the right things that will be beneficial to your life. Stop chasing vain pursuits. Some people actively seek things that hurt them or bring down their sense of self worth. Do not be this way. Treat yourself like a soul mate you are madly in love with. You would only want them to do constructive and beneficial things.
  • Be greatful: As cliche as this sounds, gratitude has tremendous effect on the life of a person. Many times a lot of people are stuck on “the wheel of complain”, that they forget they actually have things to be greatful for. Even if you lament poverty, have you stopped to thank God for your talents , fullness of life or… your lack of having cancer? Even if you have cancer, have you stopped to be thankful for the caring friends and family you have. Also, you have eyes to read this, or ears to be read this to. I have learnt along my way in life, that there is always something to be thankful for. And when you are thankful, miracles happen and good things come.